Embracing Change: Why It’s Okay to Pivot (Even When It Feels Hard)

 Hello, my fabulous friends! Let’s talk about something we’re often taught to fear: change.

For years, I built my brand as the Fabulously Fat Feminist—and I loved it. It was bold, it was me, and it felt powerful. But over time, that identity started to feel too heavy. It wasn’t that I stopped believing in feminism or fat activism (trust me, I’m still here for all of it). It was more that I felt boxed in, weighed down by the constant battle, the negativity of the news cycle, and the feeling that I was constantly fighting rather than living.

And so, I changed.

I pivoted to Be Fearless After 40—a brand that feels free, light, and fully aligned with where I am in my life. It wasn’t an easy decision. My brain kept whispering, “You’re quitting. You’re giving up. What will people think?” But here’s the truth: changing your mind is not failing. It’s growth.

The Truth About Change

From childhood, we’re conditioned to believe that picking something—whether it’s a career, a relationship, or a personal identity—means we must stick with it forever. The fear of being seen as a “quitter” keeps so many of us trapped in places we’ve outgrown.

But growth requires change. The person you were at 20 isn’t the same person you are at 40. Your dreams shift. Your priorities evolve. And that’s okay. Actually, it’s necessary.

When we resist change, we stay stuck in situations that no longer serve us. We force ourselves to squeeze into outdated identities instead of stepping into who we are right now.

So if something in your life no longer fits—whether it’s a job, a relationship, or even just the way you think about yourself—give yourself permission to pivot. To embrace the next version of you. To make space for joy.

Ready to Make a Change in Your Own Life?

If this resonates with you, I want to introduce you to something I created while on my own mini solo escape: the Solo Escape Blueprint.

This is your invitation to step away, reset, and reconnect with yourself. Whether you book a weekend getaway or carve out a quiet afternoon at home, this blueprint gives you everything you need—journaling prompts, meditations, and a framework—to gain clarity on where you are and where you want to go next.

Because here’s the truth: Your life is yours to shape. And you are allowed to change it.

Let’s be fearless together. 💛

Learn More About the Solo Escape Blueprint Here